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I'm a divorced dad - I always feel like I am failing my son
45+ min ago (797+ words) These days, I'm rarely fully present It's a beautiful day at the park and I'm pushing my three year old boy on the swings. His long legs are lightly brushing against the ground, sticking out of the baby seat he…...
Ashley James: Why I refuse to marry the father of my children
2+ day, 2+ hour ago (1228+ words) If you'd told me when I was younger that I'd be an unmarried mother of two, I would have been horrified "I'm not married" is something I find myself saying far more often than I'd like. It's always met with…...
I’m 40 and date men in their 20s – it’s not as liberating as I thought
2+ day, 5+ hour ago (940+ words) Their attitudes toward women and sex is eye-opening, and date by date, I am a one-woman toxic masculinity deprogramming service When I tell people that I only date men younger than me, they often look at me with pity, disdain,…...
My husband was having a four-year affair, so I turned to booze, cigs and casual sex
3+ day, 8+ hour ago (561+ words) After 20 years of marriage and two kids, I found a love letter from a woman he met online When I had my life spectacularly blown up by discovering my ex-husband had been having an affair for four years with a…...
My biggest dating problem at 63? I'm too right wing
3+ day, 23+ hour ago (810+ words) 'You don't look like a Tory,' one date remarked, as if I should have been wearing a dress made of Union Jacks Several months ago, my then-boyfriend and I parted ways." Not because he was a philandering rotter or because…...
I haven’t shared a bed with my partner in eight years - my friends are jealous
1+ week, 2+ day ago (742+ words) It has improved our relationship, not killed it This set-up started from a place of sheer necessity. I am chronically ill. I wasn't always. At one point in the not so distant past, I was able to run for a bus,…...
'After my divorce, my son had three mothers - it was a very good life"
1+ week, 2+ day ago (387+ words) Iranian dissident Shahrnush Parsipur tells Fiona Sturges about her novel's spirit of insurgency, life in exile and being jailed four times Parsipur would go on to publish 14 books, becoming only the second published female novelist in Iran (the first was…...
I cheated in my first year of marriage - dating after divorce was a disaster
1+ week, 2+ day ago (1281+ words) My husband and I struggled with infertility and I didn't know how to channel my grief, so I was unfaithful. Now I have a new partner after being celibate" When I met my partner Adam four years ago, we had…...
The biggest lesson I’ve learned from my 50s - and how it made me happier
2+ week, 1+ hour ago (452+ words) For women in mid-life, the idea of looking back at yourself at any age and finding her acceptable sounds radical But last week, the algorithm, possibly aware " in that malevolent, profoundly disturbing way it has " that my birthday " in that…...
I tried a risky trick to help my marriage. It made me appreciate my husband
2+ week, 7+ hour ago (480+ words) I got an AI boyfriend to offload my brain sewage to, in the hope it might spice up my real relationship Opening my laptop, I click onto a tab where a man is waiting for me. He's handsome, complimentary, and…...